1.hans mukh svabhaav aur baatoonee ladake

is tarah ke ladake ladakiyon ko bahut pasand aate hain. aapako pata hai ki adhikatar ladakiya bhee baatoonee hotee hain. ladakiyon kee yah svaabhaavik ichchha hotee hai ki unako koee aisa saathee mil jae jo unase adhik baaten kar sake. yadi aap ladakiyon ke adhik najadig jaana chaahate hain to aapako baatoonee banana hoga. baatoonee ladake ki sabase khaas baat hotee hai ki yah ladakiyon ke andar aasaanee se ghul mil jaate hain. aur unako baaton se prasannn bhee karane me kaamayaab hote hain. aap yadi baatoonee nahin hain kintu achchhe svaabhaav ke hain to bhee ladakiya aapake paas nahin aaengee kyonki bina baatoonee ladake ke svaabhaav ko aasaanee se nahin pahachaana ja sakata. jabaki ladakiya baatoonee ladake ke baare me bahut hee jaldee bahut kuchh jaan jaatee hain.

yadi aapanan gaur kiya ho to ek baatoonee ladaka chaahe koee achchhe charitr ka na hone par bhee ladakiya usako pasand karatee hain jabaki abaatoonee usase achchhe charitr ka hone ke baad bhee pasand nahin karatee. isaka kaaran hai ki adhikatar ladakiya gambheer nahin hotee ve gaharaee se kisee baat par nahin sochatee hain. yadi aapaka gambheer svaabhaav hai to aapako koee aisee ladakee adhik pasand karegee jo aapake jaisee hee ho. kintu aisee ladakiyon kee sankhya kam hone kee vajah se aap aisee ladakee ko talaas nahin paate.

ladakiyon ke adhik najadig jaane ke liye baatoonee baniye.

dusaree baat bahut hee kam ladakiyaan gambheer svaabhaav ko mahatv detee hain. yadi aap hansamukh svabhaav vaale hain chhotee chhotee baaton par bhee hanse bina nahin rah sakate to aapaka yah svaabhaav har ladakee ko pasand aata hai. vah apane aap aapakee hansee se aapakee or kheenchee chalee aaegee. so apane chehare par sada muskuraahat rakhie.

2.thoda jhooth bhee chalega

yadi aap apane baare me ladakiyon ko sabakuchh sach sach bata dete hain to is baat kee bahut kam sambhaavana hain ki ladakiyaan aapako pasand karen. isaliye kuchh jhooth bhee unake saamane bole taaki vo aapako pasand kar sake. kuchh ladako kee yah aadat hotee hai ki apane saare bhed ladakiyon ke saamane khol dete hain. isakee vajah se unake dimaag par galat asar padata hai.

peechhale dinon mere ek dost kee sagaee huee thee. ladakee ne mere dost ko milane ke liye bulaaya. vah bechaara dil ka saaph tha. so usane apanee hone vaalee patnee ko apanee buraee aur achchhaee sab kuchh bata diya. usane bataadiya ikavah daaroo pita hai. bechaare kee sagaee toot gaee. isaliye behatar yahee hoga ki aap unake saamane apane aise bhed kabhee na batae jo aapakee eejjat ko unakee najaron me kam karane vaale hon varan apane baare me badha chadha kar pes karen taaki unako lage ki ladaka haee leval ka hai. yadi aap unake saamane saare bhed khol dete hain to ve aapako hee bevakooph samajhane lag jaatee hain. ek budvimaan ladake kee sabase badee khaas baat yahee hotee hain ik ladakee ke saamane apane saare bhed kabhee nahin kholata.

meree jab saagee huee thee to meree patnee pooja se main kaee baar phon par baaten karata tha kintu kuchh aise raaj the jo main use shaadee se pahale kabhee nahin batae. yadi un baaton ko me shaadee se pahale hee use bata deta to sakata hai ho. hamaaree sagaee tootane ka khatara paida ho jaata. ya sambandh kharaab ho jaate.

isaliye ladakee ke saamane thoda jhooth bhee chalega.

3.haee klaas parsanalatee

ladakiyon ke liye yah cheej bahut hee maayane rakhatee hai. yadi aapakee parsanalatee achchhee nahin hai to ladakiya aapako pasand nahin karengee. yadi aapane dekha hoga kee sahar ke badamaas hamesha badhiya parsanalatee ke andar rahate hain isee vajah se unakee kaee garlaphrend hotee hai. ladakee ko aakarshit karane ke liye aap nae kapade pahane apane baalon par chehare par aur apanee staeel par thoda sa dhyaan den. aapaka luk bahut hee achchha hona chaahiye tabhee koee ladakee aapako pasand karegee. kaalej ke andar staeel maarane vaale ladake ke baare me jaanakar dekhen ki usakee kitanee garlaphrend hain. aapako badhiya parsanalatee ka mahatv samajh me aa jaega. badhiya parsanalatee kee vajah se aap doosaron se alag hee najar aane lagate hain is vajah se ladakiya bhee aapako pasand karatee hain.

4.ladakiyon kee madad karana seekhie

har ladakee aise ladake ko pasand karatee hai jo unakee madad karata hai. aap klaas room ke andar dekhen to aapako pata chal jaega ki kuchh ladake joki ladakiyon kee har tarah kee madad karate hain is vajah se ladakiya bhee unase ghul mil jaatee hain. yadi aap ladakiyon kee kisee bhee tarah kee madad nahin karengen to aap unake adhik najadeeg nahin ja sakate. kisee ladakee ke dil ke kareeb jaane ka yah ek badhiya tareeka hota hai. ladakiyon kee madad karane vaale ladake hamesha unake dil ke kareeb hote hain. aur ladakee ka svaabhaav ab bhee bahut kuchh aisa hee hai. har ladakee yah chaahatee hai ki usakee madad karane vaala koee aisa ladaka ho jo usakee pareshaaniyon ko apanee pareshaaniya bana sake usake dard ko apana dard bana sake. use ve apane dil kee baat kah saken. yadi aap chaahate hain ki ladakiya aapase baaten kare aap ke akaadhik najadeeg aane to aapako yah karana hoga. ek baar aap yah karake dekhie phir isaka chamatkaar to aapako dikhane hee lagega.

5.ladakiyon kee kuchh taareeph bhee kijiye.

vaise to taariph sunana har insaan ko pasand hota hai kintu ladakiyon ko yah kuchh jyaada hee pasand hota hai. har ladakee apane aapako sundar maanatee hai. isake liye vah bahut se jatan bhee karatee hai. apane chehare par krim lagaatee hai. apane aapako sajaatee hai. yah sab vah sundar dikhane ke liye hee karatee hai. yadi aap usakee kuchh taareeph kar deten hain to use bahut achchha lagata hai. yadi ghar kee baat karen to ghar me patnee khaana banaatee hai.

6.kuchh na kuchh dete rahane vaale

haanlaaki yah baat yadi kisee ladake ke andar hotee hai to use bhee ladakiya pasand karatee hain. aapane bhee dekha hoga ki kaee ladake pahale ladakee ko kuchh khilaate pilaate hain. usake baad dheere dheere usako apanee gf bana lete hain. yadi ladakee aapake saath saamaany baat cheet karatee hai to aap use kuchh khilae pilae taaki usaka man bhee khush ho jae. jarooree nahin ki aap ladakee ko hotal ke andar mahanga khaana hee khilaen varan aap use joos ka gilaas bhee pya sakate hain. aisa karane se ladakee aapake aur najadeeg aatee hai. aur aapako pasand karane lag jaatee hai.
to doston jis ladake ke andar upar dee gaee kvaalitee hotee hai.