ab pahale vaala samay nahin raha hai. kintu bhaarat ke kaee gaanvon aur shaharon ke andar aaj bhee ladake ke maan baap ladakee ko dekhate hain. pasand bhee vahee karate hain. aur phir sagaee karadee jaatee hai .ladake ko na to ladakee dekhane dee jaatee hai. aur to aur unako baat bhee nahin karane dee jaatee. saath to ladake ladakee ko rahana hota hai to phir mera yah maanana hai ki donon ko ek doosare se shaadi se pahale mila dena chaahiye taaki ve ek doosare ke baare me bahut kuchh jaan sake.
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kaise chune shaadi ke liye sahee ladakee
doston aaj ham aapako shaadi ke liye sahee ladakee chunaav karane ka tareeka seekha rahe hain. yadi aap ek baar is tareeke se apanee hone vaalee patnee ko chun lete hain to yah hamaara daava hai ki aapakee vivaahit laeeph ke andar khushiyaan bhar jaengee.
1.ladakee aapako pasand karatee hai ya nahin yah jaanane kee koshish karen
yah sab jaanane ke liye aapako ladakee se baat karanee bhee bahut aavashyak hai. kyonki tabhee aap usakee pasand aur na pasand ke baare me jaan paengen. aapako sabase pahala kaam karana hoga ki aap ko yah pata lagaana hai ki ladakee aapako pasand karatee hai ya nahin. yadi pasand karatee hai to kitana pasand karatee hai.
yadi aapako ladakee pasand nahin karatee to mere vichaar se aapako usake saath shaadi nahin karanee chaahiye. kyonki tab shaadi ke baad avaidh apheyar ke chaans badh jaate hain. aur baad me aisa hota hai to aapakee jindagee ke andar toophaan aa jaata hai. yadi ladakee apane pairon par khadee hai to avaidh apheyar ke chaans bahut hee adhik badh jaate hain. isaliye is baat ka hamesha dhyaan rakhe kee ladakee aapako pasand karanee chaahiye tabhee aapake liye aur aapake aane vaale bhavishy ke liye sahee hoga. ladakee kee pasand jaanane ke liye aap use poochh sakate hain.
2.kya aap use pasand karate hain
yah baat bhee mahatvapoorn hai. yadi aapake ghar vaale aapakee shaadi aapakee pasandida ladakee se karava dete hain. to aapako bhee bahut achchha lagata hai. aapakee laeeph ke andar isaka sakaaraatmak prabhaav padata hai kintu yadi aapake ghar vaale aapakee shaadi us ladakee se kara dete hain jise aap pasand nahin karate hain to isaka aapake sambandhon par bura asar padata hai. par mera jahaan tak anubhav hai. har ladaka ladakee ke andar keval khoobasooratee ko dekhata hai .yadi vah khoobasoorat nahin hai to vah use pasand nahin karata. haan kuchhek ladake kuchh alag soch vaale hote hain. jahaantak ho sake aapako apanee pasand kee ladakee se hee shaadi karanee chaahiye.
3.ladakee kee haisiyat
aaj ke samay me yah cheej bahut hee mahatvapoorn hai. aisa mainne bahut see ghatanaon ke andar dekha hai. haanlaaki jahaan par ladakee apanee pasand ke anusaar shaadi karatee hai. vahaan par yah cheej bahut adhik mahatvapoorn nahin hotee hai. kintu jahaan par arenj mairij hotee hai. vahaan par is cheej ka mahatv badh jaata hai.
hota yah ki kisee ladakee kee dau tarah kee haisiyat sakatee hai ho. ek apane pairon par khadee aur doosaree apane pati par nirbhar rahane vaalee. jahaan tak meree soch hai. doosaree tarah kee haisiyat vaalee ladakee aapake liye ekadam se sahee hogee. kyonki vah aapakee khoob seva karegee aur aapako kisee shikaayat ka mauka bhee nahin degee. aapako usake saamane koee adhik jhukane kee aavashyakata bhee nahin hogee. vah aapakee lagabhag har baat maan legee.
yaani kul milaakar is tarah kee ladakee sab prakaar ke ladakon ke laayak hotee hain. kintu jo ladakee paisa kamaatee hai. to use aapakee koee khaas aavashyakata nahin hai. aapane use kuchh ulta seedha kaha aur vah aapase talaak kee maang karalegee. jaisa kee aapane dekha hoga jo ladakiya teevee par philmon me daans karatee hain. aur jo hiroeene philmen nikaalatee hain. unake nakhare kitane hote hain yahato aap un logon se poochh sakate hain jinhonne un se shaadi kee hai. aur is tarah kee ladakiyon ke saath rishta adhik lamben samay tak chalane kee sambhaavana bhee kam hotee hai. so apane liye sahee haisiyat kee ladakee chune.
4.ladakee ke eks rishte
lagabhag har ladakee ke eks rishte hote hain. haan yah hota hai ki har ladakee inako apane hone vaale laeeph paartanar ko nahin bataatee hai. aur bataana bhee nahin chaahatee. yadi aapake andar sach ka saamana karane kee taakat hai to kisee tarah se ladakee ke dil mein daphan vah raaj ugalaane kee koshish karen jisako ladakee ne dilame daba rakha hai. jaise ladakee ke dilame apane eks boryaphrend ke prati pyaar hai ya nahin. is baat ka pata lagaana bahut hee jarooree ho jaata hai. yadi ladakee apane eks boryaphrend ko bhool chukee hai to sahee hai kintu yadi vah ab bhee use apane dil se lagaaye hue hai to ladakee se is baare me baat karanee chaahiye. taaki isaka koee samaadhaan nikal sake.
5.ek doosare ke andar jhaankiye
aisa karana bhee bahut jarooree ho jaata hai. aapako ladakee se yah poochhana hai ki aapake andar vo kaunasee kamiya hain jinako door karalena chaahiye. ya ladakee unako pasand nahin karatee vo kamiyaan aapako door karanee chaahiye. aur aapako bhee jo kamee apanee hone vaalee patnee me najar aae aap use bataayen ki yah kamee aapake andar hai.
is tarah se donon ek doosare kee kamiyaan nikaal kar door karale taaki baad me kisee baat ko lekar aapake beech manamutaav hone ke chaans kam ho jaengen. ek doosare kee kamiyon ko pakada bhee koee aasaan kaam nahin hai kamiyaan dheere dheere saamane aatee hain kintu jaise hee vo dikhe use door karane me lag jaen. jaise ladakee ko pasand nahin kee aap sharaab peeye to aapako is kamee ko door karana chaahiye taaki aapakee laeeph khushahaal ho sake.
te doston yah lekh aapako kaisa laga apane kament kar hamen bataayen yadi aapaka koee savaal ho to neeche post kar den.
